Is It LOVE You’re After?

Written By BLACK Phoenix
 
 

THIS IS NOT THE 1960’S

I REPEAT THIS IS NOT THE 1960’S THE OLD MEET FALL IN LOVE, GROWING OLD TOGETHER IS NOT WHAT MOST PEOPLE WANT NOW DAYS! BUT THERE IS STILL HOPE.

WELCOME TO 2022 DATING IS NOW FOR SPORT!

  • 1ST LOVING YOURSELF IS MOST IMPORANT!!

  • 2ND KNOW WHAT YOU WANT FROM A PARTNER

WANTS

NEEDS

LOVE LANGUAGE

  • 3RD KNOW WHAT YOUR DEAL BREAKERS ARE AND STICK TO THEM……..

  • 4TH FOR THE LADIES ONLY!! YOU HAVE TO KNOW HOW TO ACHIEVE A ORGASM WITHOUT A SEXUAL PARTNER. NO CODEPENDENCY SEX..

  • The honeymoon phase is an early part of a couple's relationship where everything seems carefree and happy. It usually lasts 2-6 WEEKS LOOK OUT THE MASK’S ARE COMING OFF SOON..

THIS phase is meant to be enjoyed and to have fun. Go on dates, have adventures, spend a lot of time enjoying each other’s company. The honeymoon phase is also a good time to get to know your partner. There is also a wild amount of chemistry and frequent, passionate sex.

When the Honeymoon Phase Is OVER!

BUBBLE POPS!!

You begin to realize that this person isn’t perfect, you see their imperfections, and inevitable conflict will start to creep in. You might also start to fight more or have less sex. Questioning your relationship is normal during this time.

Long-term relationships start to build when the honeymoon phase wanes out.

THE NEXT PART IS WHERE MOST PEOPLE MESS UP WITH RELATIONSHIPS..

REALITY

END of the honeymoon phase and is the point at which you might start to see flaws in your partner and notice things that annoy you.

This doesn’t mean you no longer like or love each other; it’s just reality and life setting in and you tend to become more aware of your partner after the rush of hormones has subsided..

NOW WE SEE THEM AS A REAL PERSON DO THEY MEET YOUR WANTS, NEEDS DO THEY TRY TO SPEAK YOUR LOVE LANGUAGE..

IF YOU ANSWER NO!!!

TWO OUT OF THREE START OVER!! NOPE I DONT CARE HOW MUCH YOU LIKE THEM OR HOW GOOD THE SEX IS.. START OVER! THIS WILL NOT END WITH YOU BEING HAPPY, LOVED AND FULFILLMENT..

DONT SALE YOURSELF SHORT!

But the good news is, if you make it past this stage this is a good sign of things to come.

  • COMMITMENT

Agreement to commit to each other regardless of circumstances also means accepting their dreams, goals, wants and needs in life. This could mean things like deciding where you want to live together, helping them to achieve career goals and discussing plans for the future.

Even though you have made a commitment, it doesn’t mean that your relationship will be without its ups and downs in the future. The important thing is to learn to apologies and forgive when things go wrong and instead work together as a solid partnership to overcome any challenges that life throws your way.

Once two people have bonded with each other, this is when true love really begins. This stage usually means opening up to one another and really letting your guard down. learning about each other’s pasts and deeper feelings and seeing their true character in a new light.

 
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